How to say “you have to” like a native speaker
Tell someone that an action is necessary or required. Be aware that it can sound forceful when used as direct advice.
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Hear “you have to” in real speech
Clip 1 · Mel Robbins
How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF · 13:28
About this video
Mel Robbins talks about changing habits and taking action on things people want to do. She introduces an exercise involving getting out of bed when an earlier alarm rings.
In context
But it's not easy.You have to force yourself.
And I mean force.
Clip 2 · Celeste Headlee
Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation | TED · 10:16
About this video
Celeste Headlee discusses habits that can make conversations more useful. She talks about difficult topics and explains how the way a question is asked can limit the answer someone gives.
In context
You're just two people shouting out barely related sentences in the same place.You have to listen to one another.
Stephen Covey said it very beautifully.
Clip 3 · Patrick Winston (MIT)
How to Speak · 45:45
About this video
Patrick Winston teaches a lecture about speaking and communicating ideas. He discusses the role of knowledge and practice, and uses presentation slides to illustrate choices that help or hinder an audience.
In context
if you haven't told people that you've done something in five minutes, you've already lost.So you have to be able to do that.
And let me just mention a couple of things in that connection.
When to use “you have to”
- Explaining a rule: “You have to show your ticket at the entrance.”
- Giving practical advice: “You have to water this plant regularly.”
Common learner mistake
“You don't have to” means it is optional; “you mustn't” means it is forbidden.
Possible connected-speech patterns in “you have to”
In this expression “have” commonly ends with an F sound before “to”. The final “to” is often weak.
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